If you’re a single woman in your 30’s and you don’t want to be, it can be kind of depressing. The culture we have here in Nigeria is that when a woman is single and of a certain age, she’s looked down upon and treated a bit like a second class citizen and that can…
A lot of the time, we see being single as a phase to go through before getting married. And perhaps that’s what it is. The problem arrives when we see that time of our lives as a phase that must be tolerated and rushed through. We have to learn to stop seeing it that way. …
One of the things single women often here is “There are no husbands out there.” I certainly heard it a lot. Even my mother said it to me. When she did, I was in shock because that was NOT her reality. Her happy 45-year marriage ended when my father died. How could she who had…
Women always wonder if the guy they’re with really loves them. It’s a basic insecurity most women have. While there’s no sure-fire way to tell if a guy is crazy about you, usually, he’ll give you signs that let you know he is. These signs are not proof that he will love you forever and…
COACHING TESTIMONIALS I had been single for a while when I decided to have a coaching session with Lape. During the session, she gave me some tips which I practiced. Within a month, I was happier and found that I was attracting amazing men. Today, I’m in a happy relationship. I’m so glad I had…
There are many cool and not-so-cool things about being single. One of the not-so-cool things single people complain about the most is loneliness and the loneliest time of the year has to be Christmas. Christmas is marketed as a time to be surrounded by family and friends and that’s exactly what makes it so lonely. …
Happy Singles’ Day! I know lots of people will wonder what there is to celebrate about being single and if you’re like me, you’re surprised there’s even such a thing as Singles’ Day. There is something known as Singles Day though and according to Wikipedia, it started in China. As for how there can be…
If you’ve been on your own for long, it’s easy as a single woman in your 30s to think that there are no single men out there or that all the ‘good ones’ are taken. This thought is compounded by the frustration of not even knowing where to meet single men. It can be pretty…
As a single woman in your 30s, a time will come when it seems like everyone except you is married. It can be a lonely, embarrassing experience especially if you have a closely-knit group of friends and they all get married making you feel like there’s something wrong with you. Sometimes, it feels like your…
Many single women in their 30s are looking for a formula when it comes to dating. The average 30-something single woman has probably had several bad relationships and is looking for something that will tell her the type of man to avoid so she doesn’t have another dead-end relationship. For many women, age is an…